âItâs easy to forget now, when weâve come so far, where now marriage is equal under the lawâjust how much courage was required for Ellen to come out on the most public of stages almost 20 years ago. Just how important it was not just to the LGBT community, but for all of us to see somebody so full of kindness and light, somebody we liked so much, somebody who could be our neighbor or our colleague or our sister challenge our own assumptions, remind us that we have more in common than we realize, push our country in the direction of justice.
What an incredible burden that was to bear. To risk your career like that. People donât do that very often. And then to have the hopes of millions on your shoulders. But itâs like Ellen says: We all want a tortilla chip that can support the weight of guacamole. Which really makes no sense to me, but I thought would brighten the mood, because I was getting kind of choked up. And she did pay a priceâwe donât remember this. I hadnât remembered it. She did, for a pretty long stretch of timeâeven in Hollywood. And yet, today, every day, in every way, Ellen counters what too often divides us with the countless things that bind us togetherâinspires us to be better, one joke, one dance at a time.â âPresident Obama awarding the Medal of Freedom, our nationâs highest civilian honor, to Ellen DeGeneres yesterday, along with 20 other Americans who have contributed to their fields.
No Trump. No KKK. No fascist USA.
Green Day, at the American Music Awards (via chameleongarden)
*valid does not mean healthy, or good, or to be privileged above common sense and kindness
A distinction for anyone who is young and hasnât figured this out yet:
You are allowed to have whatever emotions you want. No one can control your emotions. Emotions are healthy responses to things.
You are not allowed to have behaviors that are harmful just because you have certain emotions. Your behaviors are what you can control, and they are far easier to control than your emotions.
You can be jealous about someone or their talents until you turn green, but it is harmful to yourself and to that person if you try to sabotage them because of it. You can be so angry you can literally feel your temperature rise, but this does not give you permission to rage at others.
Your emotions are valid. They are always valid. You are a person of value. However, you behaviors are not always justified just because of those emotions. You may not be able to control you emotions, but you can certainly control your behaviors.
You internet-savvy kids might be laughing right now, but some of us older folk (and newbies) might need a little help on the tech side of tumblr.
I learned to do this shit the hard way when I first started. I had to search down instructions, and even then I needed the Rosetta Stone to decipher them because they were written by people who had obvious tech knowledge.
Simply uploading a photo/gif into a text post is pretty easy. You click the camera icon in the postâs tool bar, and browse for a saved image in your computer.
But a lot of people donât know how to effectively post an image into their reblog comments without it turning into a frustrating grey square.
So, if you want to reblog something and add a photo/gif comment to a previous post, this is how I do it:
1) Open up an empty text post (in a separate window from the post you want to reblog) and upload your desired image into the empty text post using the little camera icon
2) Once the image has loaded, click the âhtmlâ button in the tool bar of that text post, and a box will pop up with the html code for the image
3) Highlight the html code, right-click on it and âcopyâ the code
4) Forget all about that text post, youâre done with it
5) Open up the window with the post you want to reblog.
Note: NEVER use the little âtreeâ icon in the post toolbar to upload images to the post, it sucks and itâs useless and is the cause of a lot of sad grey squares
6) In the post you want to reblog with your photo comment, click the âhtmlâ button in the toolbar of THAT post. A box will pop up with the html code of the entire contents of the previous posters.
7)Â Put your cursor right under the very bottom piece of code, in the next available line. Right-click and âpasteâ your copied code. Press âsaveâ and your image will appear in the proper place in the post you want to reblog
8) Press âreblogâ and voilĂ , no grey square when it appears on your dash.
This also works for picture/gif submissions.
If you want to submit images to other blogs, just follow that same formula and use the html code instead of that fucking little tree icon bullshit.
There may some better way to do this if you have a fancy browser or program that makes it easier (that I am unaware of), but I have neither so I do what works.
Iâm writing a current events essay about Vine shutting down and I tried really hard not to use the word âmemeâ so I said âhumorous internet exclusive jokesâ I hate myself.
you: meme
Me, an intellectual: humorous internet exclusive jokes
Ugh. Â Weâre seeing a lot of this lately. Â So letâs go over a few things, shall we?
Like we said a couple of months ago, liberals – who have demonstrated throughout history that they have no fucking clue what to do about fascism – always seem to trot out the same old tired horseshit about antifa:
-you canât fight hate with hate; -if you fight fascism militantly, youâre just as bad as they are; -nazis should have the right to publicly advocate and organize genocide because âfree speech;â -if we just ignore the fascists theyâll go away; -shutting down racist events wonât change their minds about their racism; -the police and the state will protect us from fascists; -we need to âshine a lightâ on the racistsâ bankrupt ideas, so everyone can see their ideology for what it is, in the free market of ideas blah blah blah
NAZIS AND COPS: we want to beat up minorities. Weâre going to do that now. ANTIFA: we arenât going to let you. LIBERALS: uwu donât fight hate with hate. Antifa is sooo violent. ME: theyâre literal fucking nazis who are beating people up. LIBERALS: thatâs their opinion and you gotta let them. Itâs the rules.
& yet you never see liberals confronting WW2 veterans with this âlogic,â do you?
As weâve said before, iberals arenât exactly experts when it comes to dealing with fascists and their  liberal âstrategiesâ of non-confrontation, âdebate,â and giving fascists free publicity are counterproductive, dangerous, and irresponsible,  The people that have been dealing with fascists for decades – and the victims of fascism – know what it takes to stop fascists and racists from doing real harm.  As Holocaust survivor Frank Frison put it:Â
âIf fascism could be defeated in debate, I assure you that it would never have happened, neither in Germany, nor in Italy, nor anywhere else. Those who recognised its threat at the time and tried to stop it were, I assume, also called âa mobâ. Regrettably too many âfair-mindedâ people didnât either try, or want to stop it, and, as I witnessed myself during the war, accommodated themselves when it took over ⊠People who witnessed fascism at its height are dying out, but the ideology is still here, and its apologists are working hard at a comeback. Past experience should teach us that fascism must be stopped before it takes hold again of too many minds, and becomes useful once again to some powerful interests.â  Â
FRANK FRISON, HOLOCAUST SURVIVOR: âIf fascism could be defeated in debate, I assure you that it would never have happened, neither in Germany, nor in Italy, nor anywhere else.â ADOLF HITLER: âOnly one thing could have stopped our movement – if our adversaries had understood its principle and from the first day smashed with the utmost brutality the nucleus of our new movement.â LIBERALS: No need for violence, just write a really witty editorial about it đ